Loud s*x: why are women loud during s*x?
Many women are actually loud in bed. They moan, scream, loudly say their partner’s name, tell them to go faster or harder, or bark orders like a s*x-driven dominatrix. In fact, a British study has showed that all of the 71 sexually active women studied do vocalize during sex, but this is not because they are having orgasms.
Here are the real reasons why your woman is loud during s*x:
#1 It’s her response to pleasure. One of the most common reasons she moans in bed is because she’s simply loving what you’re doing. She’s probably one of those girls who is actually genuinely expressive when it comes to what she likes.
When something pleasurable happens to her, like dipping in a warm bath after a tiring day, or taking a sip from an exceptionally good cup of coffee, her sighs and moans are just an audible and involuntary response. So give her the benefit of the doubt.
#2 She wants to turn herself on. So she’s moaning and getting loud pretty early on in your lovemaking sesh? This could also be because she wants to turn herself on. After all, getting horny doesn’t always come instantly, no matter how much foreplay you do. For her, there will be times when she’s probably too preoccupied or worried about something else in her life, and moaning is one of the most effective ways of getting herself in the mood and turning herself on.
#3 She wants you to feel s*xy. If you’ve had s*x with someone who’s completely silent, then you probably know just how much of a difference a little vocalization makes. Having someone who moans, sighs, screams, or even grunts in bed enhances the overall experience. This is because it also makes you feel s*xy, since there’s this preconceived notion that her moaning is proportionate to how good you are in bed. Loud s*x also even encourages you to perform well and enhances your libido.
#4 She is telling you something. Whether she’s explicitly giving you orders or making different vocalizations, the sounds coming out of her mouth are also great vocal cues that will give you a good idea of what she wants and doesn’t want you to do.
So if you’re doing something she likes, she’ll tell you, “Oh yes!” or something along those lines. Then you know you’re on the right track and you should keep doing what you’re doing. However, when you’re doing something she doesn’t like, you’ll probably hear her less, or she might actually let you know with a “Not there, baby” and guide you to the right place.
#5 Change the tempo. The tempo of her moans and heavy breathing can also be a great indicator of how fast and hard you should go. The faster her s*x sounds, the faster your rhythm should be. If she suddenly stops or makes a pained sound, then this might mean you are going too hard or too fast. Sometimes, women like men to think they’re in charge, but what’s really happening is that they’re the ones telling you just what to do and how to do it, if very subtly.
#6 She wants you to feel good. When she moans in pleasure, you’ll know it. Her s*x sounds are also a way for her to compliment just how well you’re doing and how fantastically you’re doing her. Think about it as an ego boost for you, right in the most intimate and most private moment that you share. She doesn’t have to use words, because the sounds she makes and how loudly she makes them is like your badge of honor, whether or not there are third-party listeners around.
#7 She doesn’t want s*x to be boring. S*x is primal. It’s hot, s*xy, raunchy, messy—and it is expectedly loud. There’s no better way to instantly limp down a rock-hard penis than being a quiet, frigid woman in bed. Some vocalizations are always a welcome addition to the bedroom repertoire, whether these are just low whimpers or top-of-the-lung shouts. These make the perfect natural soundtrack that can liven up your romp so you can both get into the moment and give your best performances every time.
Here are the real reasons why your woman is loud during s*x:
#1 It’s her response to pleasure. One of the most common reasons she moans in bed is because she’s simply loving what you’re doing. She’s probably one of those girls who is actually genuinely expressive when it comes to what she likes.
When something pleasurable happens to her, like dipping in a warm bath after a tiring day, or taking a sip from an exceptionally good cup of coffee, her sighs and moans are just an audible and involuntary response. So give her the benefit of the doubt.
#2 She wants to turn herself on. So she’s moaning and getting loud pretty early on in your lovemaking sesh? This could also be because she wants to turn herself on. After all, getting horny doesn’t always come instantly, no matter how much foreplay you do. For her, there will be times when she’s probably too preoccupied or worried about something else in her life, and moaning is one of the most effective ways of getting herself in the mood and turning herself on.
#3 She wants you to feel s*xy. If you’ve had s*x with someone who’s completely silent, then you probably know just how much of a difference a little vocalization makes. Having someone who moans, sighs, screams, or even grunts in bed enhances the overall experience. This is because it also makes you feel s*xy, since there’s this preconceived notion that her moaning is proportionate to how good you are in bed. Loud s*x also even encourages you to perform well and enhances your libido.
#4 She is telling you something. Whether she’s explicitly giving you orders or making different vocalizations, the sounds coming out of her mouth are also great vocal cues that will give you a good idea of what she wants and doesn’t want you to do.
So if you’re doing something she likes, she’ll tell you, “Oh yes!” or something along those lines. Then you know you’re on the right track and you should keep doing what you’re doing. However, when you’re doing something she doesn’t like, you’ll probably hear her less, or she might actually let you know with a “Not there, baby” and guide you to the right place.
#5 Change the tempo. The tempo of her moans and heavy breathing can also be a great indicator of how fast and hard you should go. The faster her s*x sounds, the faster your rhythm should be. If she suddenly stops or makes a pained sound, then this might mean you are going too hard or too fast. Sometimes, women like men to think they’re in charge, but what’s really happening is that they’re the ones telling you just what to do and how to do it, if very subtly.
#6 She wants you to feel good. When she moans in pleasure, you’ll know it. Her s*x sounds are also a way for her to compliment just how well you’re doing and how fantastically you’re doing her. Think about it as an ego boost for you, right in the most intimate and most private moment that you share. She doesn’t have to use words, because the sounds she makes and how loudly she makes them is like your badge of honor, whether or not there are third-party listeners around.
#7 She doesn’t want s*x to be boring. S*x is primal. It’s hot, s*xy, raunchy, messy—and it is expectedly loud. There’s no better way to instantly limp down a rock-hard penis than being a quiet, frigid woman in bed. Some vocalizations are always a welcome addition to the bedroom repertoire, whether these are just low whimpers or top-of-the-lung shouts. These make the perfect natural soundtrack that can liven up your romp so you can both get into the moment and give your best performances every time.
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